Oooohhh...Kalni must have one of those crackberry thing-a-ma-bobs! My bosses and all my clients have those and keep telling me I should get one. I told them there was absolutely NO WAY I was doing that because I'd never be able to disconnect from the world then! My computer addiction is bad enough!!!

Jeff, I really am sensing the pain in your posts today. You don't seem to be your usual happy smart alecky self. Are you doing ok today?

I don't want to discourage you from the path you seem to be on with W but if I could throw something out there.....

You just asked W to go to counselor to talk about you, not work on the M, and she turned you down flat. What reaction will she have regarding working on your M? She just doesn't seem like she is anywhere near wanting to be proactive. Are you definitely prepared to take some kind of action if she turns you down on this?


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!