He left then Cheat 2

[Hope4us]

I think I just came to a realization. I think the reason WE still feel love and our WAS dont is because we have been the ones cultivating the feelings while they let it die. We were growing the feeling inside of us by doing things for our partners and they let it fizzle out by only doing things for themselves.So my point is, we feel love for them not because of them but becasue of US. They dont love us, not becasue of us but because of THEM!

It's an AH-HA moment.

I think you hit the nail on the head here BH. I know that's pretty much the case in my sitch. I used to do all the housework, grocery shopping, manly stuff etc and she'd come home and find fault with the way I cleaned the bath tub or some stupid thing like that. It's like nothing was ever good enough. That's what makes me wonder just why I want to make this work.