I think I just came to a realization. I think the reason WE still feel love and our WAS dont is because we have been the ones cultivating the feelings while they let it die. We were growing the feeling inside of us by doing things for our partners and they let it fizzle out by only doing things for themselves.So my point is, we feel love for them not because of them but becasue of US. They dont love us, not becasue of us but because of THEM!

It's an AH-HA moment.


Broken Hearted
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Me - 36
H - 37
S - 8
Married - 1992
ILYNILWY - August 2007
Moved Out - March 2008
OW Revieled - May 28, 2008
Filed for D - July 2, 2008

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