another date set today!

[jandn]

What a fun 1.5 hrs with W. Get to office and relator tells us the offer which I had already asked her, then tells us its a contingency. Well that changes things from my perspective. Anyways she had to go to another office and get the paperwork she had forgot, so that gave the W and I time to talk about this and other things.

I told W it was kind of low, and that we out to counter with x amount. Thats too high. After it was said and done W finally did, but wasnt happy about it. She also wanted to get something in writing about how she was fine with the offer they gave (for her L or whatever). I had to correct or point out somethings to the relator, and everytime I did, W got disgusted, but its like the relator should know wtf she is doing. She was even trying to tell me what it would appraise at this and that and I put my foot down several times. Felt pretty good!

I didnt do everything right with W. When W was actually trying to be nice and sincere, i.e.when she asked about the kids and I going to church, I didnt open up like I should have, just gave her a simple answer. W was being really friendly at that point and I blew it, was my same old self. I think that is so cause how W can change moods so much. W voice her opinions about a lot of other stuff. Told me how she isnt angry every about how I think she is. Just wants it all to be said and done.

W did give me something to think about and need to do something tomorrow about it. Told me how much I could buy her out for from the house so it would one less thing for her to stress about something she doesnt live in and could keep all things with the house expect the dishes. I looked at this as a bargaining tool to buy her out of everything. The kicker on this is that Friday I dropped off all the paperwork to L so I need to get it on paper with her before L's start revealing the paperwork.

I dont want out of this marriage, sucks you gotta battle on stuff. W did say "after we get this done, then maybe we can be friends like you said". I dont remember where I said that, but I think thats something that got twisted kinda like the seeing kids everynight that was brought up again today when we talked.