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redsawks44 #1489315 06/21/08 04:24 AM
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again we are sitting here in the same room, W is trying to be all nice.. i just got back from squash.. does she not get it? what she asked me a month ago????? WTF

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It's all going to take time. The house is going on the market. she is most likely going to file. You are going to feel like crap. But you don't want to show it.

If she still uses H and W, she still is thinking that way. DO NOT POINT IT OUT!

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Originally Posted By: dry_heat
It's all going to take time. The house is going on the market. she is most likely going to file. You are going to feel like crap. But you don't want to show it.

If she still uses H and W, she still is thinking that way. DO NOT POINT IT OUT!


Will I really feel like crap? I was out with SIL (W's sister) BF...we played squash and went for a beer/sandwich.. i told him (he isn't the type to tell)that i seem happy and W just seems pissed off/angry.. he agreed..

we just watched a movie, and i caught her looking at me... good thing? (I assume it could be)

All i could think of is.. hey you want to jump in the sack? (i know i know... scold me now)

She is doing the self-kit thingamagig... i know where all the paperwork is, it's all sitting in the kitchen... i check the first pages every other day.. nothing yet, it's likely coming..

When she found i had gone on a dating site a couple weeks ago, she said " if you want to go date go ahead..just don't bring anyone home.." hmmm it's half my house.. ..i was only bored anyways..no serious thoughts of entertaining any dates.. i love my W..

I won't point it out.. i am getting it (i hope)

have a good night y'all

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she just left for the day/evening with her cousin, possibly going camping overnight... she looked real good...

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i was thinking of sending an email like this:

T,

Just wondering if you could keep July 9th open on your calendar. I will be away on the 8th in Oregon for work. Maybe we could go grab some dinner or just go for a walk with the dogs. Let me know your thoughts.

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I think that counts as pursuit. I wouldn't do it.

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Don't do it. Not yet. Give it a little more time. Moving too fast is the kiss of death. Trust me...I know ALOT about this.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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I'll even generalize it a bit....

Don't initiate contact.

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Thats a good suggestion. Just relax and enjoy yourself for now.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Originally Posted By: dry_heat
I'll even generalize it a bit....

Don't initiate contact.


i had to today to make sure someone would be around to let the dogs out.. i was at a friend's BBQ..and i had to text her to find out if she would be home to let the dogs out.. she replied "i might be home in 1 1/2 hours, i am in the mountains".. i knew she was there with her cousin..never replied back, just came home to feed my boys .. going to try leaving before she gets in..

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