Hi everyone - Thank you all for all of your help I really appreciate it. I have a question for anyone who might be able to help. Ok as I have said before my I am going through a D and my 36 year old H has been having an affair for over a year with a 50 year old woman that he works with. Anyway my H has been taking our 4 year old s out with him and his girlfriend to the beach, movies and to her family BBQ's etc. Ok here is my question.....Is it possible to put a stop to this? Can my L have him stop taking our 4 year s out with him and his girlfriend? It's really bothering me because when H takes them all out and then brings my s home my H will lie right in front of my s as to who they were with but then as soon as my H leaves my s tells me who they were with. I hate that my H lies right in front of s and that he takes them all out together and my s is so confused because he hears his daddy lying to his mommy. I don't want my 4 year old to think it's ok to lie and I hate that my s has to be with my H's girlfriend. Any help from anyone would be great. Thanks for listening.
