I haven't posted to you before, and this may sound stupid, but I really believe it is true. Be glad it happened after only 4 years. The sooner the better, and you go on with your life. Because you will find someone else, and I hope you will find someone who understands the concept of commitment. I'm afraid the focus of marriage has moved to the wedding itself, and the big, exciting party. Everyone wants to get married. But fewer want to actually be married afterwards. They want to go back to the freedom of dating. It is immaturity. Finding a mature person to love in today's mememememememe world is difficult. There is no value placed on growing up.
