Hi Ladybug,

Happy to hear the news. Looks like the apology made a difference. I don't think it's a bad thing to let him know you don't approve of other women. I bet he doesn't want you with other men either. My philosophy is to be sure you win the battle of the bedroom. That is, make sure no one else can give him better sex than you do. Pull out all the stops, and do it like you did when you were dating, not just married people sex. I bought some really sexy lingerie from Fredericks of Hollywood. That always made for a steamy night. A separation can actually make your marriage better if you make changes to liven things up.