I think I was past the "in love" stage with H, more into the "this feels right," contentment phase. I think love "feels" different to different people in different circumstances, and sometimes codependent relationships, with their emotional intensity, feel most "crazy in love" but aren't really love at all.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012