I think I was past the "in love" stage with H, more into the "this feels right," contentment phase. I think love "feels" different to different people in different circumstances, and sometimes codependent relationships, with their emotional intensity, feel most "crazy in love" but aren't really love at all.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012