[/quote] I never understand my H's relationship w ow. He broke it off so many times, but he, too, felt bad when they couldn't be "just friends". I always thought no contact was best for healing for everyone. I can't recall if you guys have talked about counseling. Would your H go with you? Was the book After the Affair helpful at all? [/quote]
This baffles me too. H seems to feel bad that he is not her 'friend' anymore. I agree that no contact is best for everyone to move on...even the skanky OW! The quicker she is over H the faster she can find another sucker!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!