My T said the reason I keep fighting is because over the years my H would give me scraps of wonderful. I always saw the potential of great things but never really got it. He always left me wanting for more, so here I am still fighting for the more the could be. I hate it when she is so insightful.
Oh, yeah, well then there's that. The old intermittent reinforcement thing we learned in Psych 101. I think the other stuff sounds better, tho!!! LOL!
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012