I don't think I'm assuming here. The lack in our sex life has been my major issue for YEARS. I've even suggested counselling specifically for that...before the A's.
It came up several times in our C sessions, I've mentioned it many times. CJ has read the 5 LL's and KNOWS that physical touch is in my top two. I've told him that being close to him sexually calms me and is a MAJOR part of our R for me.
He has, several times, vowed to "work on" this aspect of our R. I have NO idea what this means. It has now been 5 weeks since I was shot down and he came through with the next evening "date". It was great for us both. I told him how much that meant to me......but nothing since.
The other night during some wine and music and dancing, I "flashed" him seductively.....nothing. Not even a comment. LL, I am STACKED! I feel SOOO unappreciated!
Enough about me...I need others issues to deal with right now.
Later..
Shiny
P.S. I am really thinking of mentioning the Love Languages thing and asking CJ how well he thinks he's "filling" my tanks. Ditto for him. I'd like to know how HE feels too.
