Quote: Somehow I need to communicate how very badly I feel about the whole physical side of our R. I can't imagine that he doesn't KNOW this already, but if so, why no results?????
don't assume that he knows how you feel about it, or how the lack of it makes you feel.
try to find a way to communicate YOUR feelings in a manner that relates that they are YOUR feelings and that you are not blaming him.
though I have not seen the improvements I'd like I have seen some improvements in this area in my sit...I think using the concept of love languages as a way to express my feelings was a useful way to help h to understand me.