Yay! I'm so glad you had a good time and that things look up with your H.

I know it's tough to be patient...they come back and it *feels* like things are on track, but they never say one word. It's like they are trying to sweep things under the rug...and it's frustrating because they had NO trouble bombing us with words, KWIM?

I actually had to find out H recommitted in MC. That was the only place I felt "safe" to ask...and I think that might have been 2-3 months after it "felt" like he'd recommitted.

At some point you might have to be brave and open up a conversation. Or not. Do you have issues you think you need to work on together? Or have you both made changes? That's for you to decide.

Ultimately you have to decide whether it's worth it or not. What's the payoff? What are you hoping for?

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!