I was attracted to H more in my mind, then my heart, but my heart had sent me to other no good guys and I didn't want to do that again. I don't remember the "in love" stage with H at all.
I can relate to this...I never had a 'crazy in love' feeling with my H either. It was just more easy, laid back, comfortable and felt right. FWIW, all the R experts say the "in love" stage does not last beyond two years.
