Iv'e told him no contact except work and only when neccesary but he is still telling me her not talking bothers him. This tells me that he is willing to walk all over the boundry that i set.
I never understand my H's relationship w ow. He broke it off so many times, but he, too, felt bad when they couldn't be "just friends". I always thought no contact was best for healing for everyone. I can't recall if you guys have talked about counseling. Would your H go with you? Was the book After the Affair helpful at all?
