ROOT, H DEFINITELY has intimacy issues. Growing up he never remembers seeinng his parents hug or kiss. He can't remember much of that toward himself either from them. It took us 2 years to have a baby due mostly to the intimacy problems. He knows this about himself, always has, but finally did something about it and worked on it. It does seem real to me now when he says or does something affectionate. Before, he was always robotic.
When I met H, I had dated only a few other guys and they all turned out to be self centered jerks. I consciously decided to look for a "better guy" this time around. H is tall, dark, and handsome. He is fit and loves sports like myself. He is unselfish and hardworking. Great work ethic! Smart. VERY good listener. Knew he'd get along with my familly. Religious. Good morals. He was in the same spot in life as me when I met him. I was attracted to H more in my mind, then my heart, but my heart had sent me to other no good guys and I didn't want to do that again. I don't remember the "in love" stage with H at all.
GH31, psychocybernetics huh? I'll have to check that out.
I know both of you are right about about the OM. My heart says "no way" but my mind knows what you are saying is true. Thanks for reminding me. I need to keep hearing it over and over...seriously. Please do not stop.
