Hi Jeff,
Are I was confused, becuase she shouted at yu and the kids a while back saying, if she had a full-time job (?) or the means to support herself, she would leave? And you were mad at her for that. So, sounds like she is already working hard!

I agree with the others that it is a good idea to confront her and also, to expect her to respond negatively, which is a shame.
I'm sorry I cant be more help today, but everyone is giving such great advice. My that was a big hug yuo gave Lisa!
Ali xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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