Shiny - CHILL! Don't send him mixed messages - you want him to succeed and do well on the course but you want him not to devote too much time to it? It's like when my H says I have to get back to work but tells me to drop everything and go out surfing every day.

Confess - you're really just upset because YOU wanted to be on the computer with us! Whatever happened to that second computer you were getting, anyway?

Ellie