Good question.

My immediate thoughts about why we fight--children, vows, commitment, knowing it can be better, knowing that love isn't just a feeling.

M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012