It's all going to take time. The house is going on the market. she is most likely going to file. You are going to feel like crap. But you don't want to show it.
If she still uses H and W, she still is thinking that way. DO NOT POINT IT OUT!
Will I really feel like crap? I was out with SIL (W's sister) BF...we played squash and went for a beer/sandwich.. i told him (he isn't the type to tell)that i seem happy and W just seems pissed off/angry.. he agreed..
we just watched a movie, and i caught her looking at me... good thing? (I assume it could be)
All i could think of is.. hey you want to jump in the sack? (i know i know... scold me now)
She is doing the self-kit thingamagig... i know where all the paperwork is, it's all sitting in the kitchen... i check the first pages every other day.. nothing yet, it's likely coming..
When she found i had gone on a dating site a couple weeks ago, she said " if you want to go date go ahead..just don't bring anyone home.." hmmm it's half my house.. ..i was only bored anyways..no serious thoughts of entertaining any dates.. i love my W..