Yes my wife is a is a "knock-out" to me. I think any decent H had better say that about his W. My uncle told me a line that I just cannot forget and I think it is so true and it is this "The most beautiful woman a man should know is his wife." Anyway yes she is driving me more than crazy when I see her, cause I just want to touch her and hold her. Yeah, I agree with what you say about men on the board telling their W's what they say on here.
As far as I know she is not into anyone else right know. I have told her recently that I could never do that, she said the same for herself and she has always been very adamant about that. I hope she keeps her word and strength on that issue. I also hope to get her back home before she falls into any temptation. I think it is easy for people to look at others and start to have thoughts, but then you have to ask and remind yourself where your commitment is. I took my vows before myself, my wife, and God and I have a covenant there that cannot be broken, that is the way God intended it to be, no exceptions. I rest my faith in God that he will guide her and not let her stray into temptation. I am glad to hear that you that you pulled out of that sitch, it shows your strength and that these things are possible. I believe that my W will ultimately figure out that she won't find the same happiness that she would if we work things out. With my changing and having our best interest in my heart and God in our lives, I pray that our happiness will be more than it ever was before. I use to think that I needed many things to be happy, since going through all of this I now realize that all I need to be happy is HER. And God too.
Sandi thank you for your support and prayers that she does pull out of this fog very soon.