Hnadcuffs and leg-irons might be a way to get me to do something..... not sure about your W though
Interesting...
Originally Posted By: One Day
I'll have a think about the approaching your W plan. My first thought is that if she responds negatively (ie doesn't want to work on it), you don't lose anything. But if she says she does want to work things out, waiting 3 months before another conversation, whilst carrying on with what you're doing might not be the best- if she says yes, she might expect some immediate action of some kind.
If she expects immediate action, I'm up for that! My intention is to try not to pressure her. For the near term if she says she sees wanting to work on it, at some point, it is enough for me. I would be willing to wait for her to actually do the working. Does that make any more sense?
Originally Posted By: One Day
I'll keep thinking though- on the one hand it's nice to put myself in your W's shoes. On the other she seems so unhappy it freaks me out to think what must be in her head!
