Hey gfi - this isn't about you, it's about him. I know it's hard to accept.
Why focus on the negatives? Are you worried what people will think of you? Just pick up a People magazine - there are high-profile folks getting divorced in months or days, not just years.
An EA or PA creates an addiction not unlike drugs or alcohol. He's high on brain chemicals and until he's willing to address that addiction - which is usually when someone hits bottom - there isn't a whole lot you can do. So focus on yourself and enjoying YOUR life!
You know, like taking a raft trip or something. Or if you ever feel like driving over to the coast, let me know and I'll meet you and buy you a fruity rum drink!
