Well, by your description, your wife sounds like a "knock-out" and I'm sure you are very proud of her and I'm also pretty sure she is driving you crazy everytime you see her. I can hear in your writing how much you love her. Sometime I think if some men here on the board would tell their w's what they tell us....maybe things would be different (just a thought...lol).
I think one reason that the WAW and a W in MLC is so similar is b/c the description of them often go hand in hand. However, a WAW does not necessarily have to be in a MLC to leave her H anymore than it means that she is having an affair b/c she left him. She may be leaving him for several reasons other than MLC. MLC does not have to lead to having an EA or PA, but very, very often it does sooner or later b/c the person is looking for happiness and youth and a second chance at life.......they are tying to be young again and start all over and that usually means finding another person. It is very confusing for them and their emotions get on that rollercoaster for the ride of their life--and they take anybody with them that will get on board.
Well, I've talked about this before, so no use in going over that again. Just know that I understand b/c I was from that side of the fense for a while and yet I don't condone it and I do see the pain in the LBS and the destruction of the family. That is why I stayed with my H, even though our children are grown, we are still a family and I do not want to hurt them b/c I do love my H and my family. Thank God, I was able to pull out of whatever it was that happened to me (MLC or whatever) b/c it was horrible. I do hope and pray that she will pull out soon and begin to see through the fog.
Talk to you later, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
