First I am going to try my best to take your advice.
Next, yes I have tried to be playful toward my W since the S. Make cute comments, just things that might put a smile on her face or make her laugh, and she has responded that way. Recently I have commented on her looks more often, cause she has some new outfits, and she does look hot. Dark tan, tight jeans, summer tops that reveal a little, classy, but not trashy...lol like my rhyme. I know it's pathetic, but I had to say it! I love her pretty hazel eyes and her long brunette hair. She really knows how to put on her make-up, always just enough, not over done. Well she is a licensed cosmetologist. Anyhow when she puts herself all together, damn look out!
Well Sandi your last paragraph made me laugh. As I have already read about MLC. As soon as I started reading about it I was like "That's Her." After reading MLC I felt pretty confirmed that is her.
I found what I could on the WAW and some of it does sound like her, but it could go right along with the MLC too.
In the past I was really searching for a book on MLC and I found and ordered one tonight. "Surviving Your Wife's Midlife Crises" by Christine Carter Schaap. Her website is http://www.pathpartners.com
I hope this will give you some leads as to what your thinking about my sitch.