its interesting that i havent brought up the R and that is all he could come up with after 6 weeks? it was sad in a way for him...but we were able to move beyond that...and i was able to calmly bring some things to him. now he just gets to think a lot. i hope.
i hear ya about wondering- thats all we can do....and stay positive and when we feel poopy we can know that tomorrow will be a brand new day!
i guess its good that they are curious and confused....but sometimes i get scared that they will just give up bc it is too hard or too much pain to work it out...
who knows!?
im sorry about your sitch too- ill read about you more now on your thread.
thanks for reaching out to me
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