That she's using the terms "husband" and "wife" is a very good sign. Don't worry about her filing, serving you papers, etc. I went through all that, and then things started to turn. This is a LONG process, you have plenty of time. You're even separated yet!
Today was 1 month since she dropped the bomb on me...
here's how my day went..
got up 8 AM went and got my front tooth fixed(was chipped)..now i can smile without being self concious..
then i went for a massage... awww that was great!!!! the massage lady and i spoke a little about my situation, she said "wow you are one of a kind" regarding my positivity.. even said wow you still wear your wedding ring.
next, went to eat something healthy..
then went to my wife's shop for a pedicure and a facial.. sooooo relaxing... my wife got me the 30% discount. she came after i was all done and said how was it... i said fine..
it was a challenge walking into that shop for the 1st time since.. some of the girls there gave me looks like are u ok.. i just continued to smile and chat with the lady that was doing my services.. i made her laugh the whole time we were in there(until the facial, cant talk much then)..
then i left, didnt say anything to the W.. just left.. came home fed the dogs and cats.. and now i am here posting..
tonight i am going to play squash for the 1st time ever with SIL BF.. then we might wall climb and then go for wings..
