Things are still going well, and the times when I doubt her commitment are getting fewer and farther between.
She has decided to quit her mondo-stressful, under-appreciated job. To do this, we need to lose her 55k income, which is definitely gonna hurt in the short term. But to start her new career, she needs to sever the tie with the old place.
This makes me feel pretty good. She wouldn't be doing this if she didn't feel solid about her & I, and about me supporting the 2 of us through this time. Big leap of faith for both of us, but mostly for her, I think...
Anyway, as I said, things are good, we talk a lot, and we are doing things separately as well as together. We are going kayaking on a mountain lake on Sunday (she doesn't know this yet, I only told her we were doing "something" outdoors), and she loves it when i kidnap her for surprise outings.
So there's my update for now. I'd rate us a good 7 out of 10, with optimism for the number to go up.
Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!
