Watching the kids while W goes to OM

[lynn97]

Thanks guys. My thought is to talk it over with her and then say that I still need to think about it. I'm not moving back in for at least another week while I think about it. I want to talk to my IC first anyway to get his thoughts.

Plus if I do agree to moving back in she has to agree to start working on our R. At least go to MC or something that shows she wants to progress. I don't care if we focus on friendship or I sleep on the couch, but we have to have some direction. Otherwise where we're at now is better. I will also add that no contact/full transparency has to be done as well. If she doesn't like it then I detach and wait. It's her call.

I'm tired of feeling like a lap dog.

Lynn