Wife Filed And I Need Help With Busting ASAP

[Scott123]

Man is she being a real jerk. She seems totally committed
to getting a divorce. She's already told old friends and
some of her distant family that it's done and just a matter
of time. She put a couple of my things in a box today and
said "make sure you take this stuff when you go"

She was just talking on the phone about it. Definitely
projected loudly enough so I could hear it. Being happy
about it finally being over and moving on and never looking
back etc.

Really hard to deal with hearing that and then trying to
be positive when she is just being a total jerk at all
times.

What really gets me is that she's stated before that she
still wants to be friends, yet she does all this spiteful
and down right hateful garbage. She does not want to talk
to me at all about anything (I mean non R). She barely even acknowledges me.

I mean I'm starting to feel that I don't want to be here
because of this, it's just so draining emotionally and
even physically on both of us. Even the looks I get from
her are like she wants to burn a hole right through me.

I bet she has said less than 100 words to me in the past
month. I mean talk about distant.

I think if I stay here she will just build up more resentment
and anger and go right through with the divorce. It's obvious
that she needs space and lots of it. I'm thinking the best
option is to move out and give her that space and see where
it goes from there.

- Scott