I've written a couple of these and they did nothing positive for me other than get some junk of my chest.
I totally understand why you feel the need to pass along this info but it hasn't worked out real well for me at all. I would hang onto it, read it when you feel like you have to, and not give it to her.
M:32 W:29 D:8 D:10 M 6 T 10 bomb 5/20/08 separated 5/22/08 sitch http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1471393&page=5&fpart=1