Absolutely not defeatist!! Just moving on to a different approach and different stage of life. keep your head up because you are doing great. Take it from me because i have moved more times then most people i know and it really is about you and the people around you not the house. you will make your own memories now and when he is ready he will join you. either way you are going to be ok. :o)
Me 27, W26 T-12 M-4 SEP 4/29/08 Holding 250 miles Awaiting Support Current