Watching the kids while W goes to OM

[lynn97]

So I'm sure you're all done with me and I deserve it for talking the wrong paths I guess. But I'll at least keep posting here as a journal for what not to do. Plus I do have an update.

I was preparing my email in which I was going to say that it has to be NO CONTACT or nothing when she asks if we can talk. She wants me to move back in. She says she needs help with the kids and having me there more will help that. I'll just sleep on the couch and we'll retain the "friends" relationship. This doesn't make any sense to me. Logistically if we keep the same schedule with the kids the only difference is I don't have to drive home after putting them to bed and I'll see them for an hour in the morning before work. I told her I would think about it.

My thoughts are that this is a bad idea. We shouldn't move back in together until we both are in a better place and our relationship is more than a "friend" stage. But my thoughts are always wrong these days anyway.

Lynn