Anyway, your philosophy "what is there to loose" works but think a bit on the "what am I to gain?"... You BOTH are very negative. And I agree with your C, she sounds confused and depressed much more than you do. What is it with this quilting she does all the time? The best thing I see is that you are AWARE of what is going on. I guess that wins half the battle to happiness (England)...
Sorry I wasn't around today. I feel SOOOOOOO tired. I think I am going to a friends house tomorrow at the beach, just sit there and read...
It's closer to 42 now, still going up. And tomorrow is supposed to be hotter!
Originally Posted By: Kalni
Anyway, your philosophy "what is there to loose" works but think a bit on the "what am I to gain?"
Good point. I often look at the "what's the worst thing that could happen?" side first. What I have to gain, in either case, is a chance of getting unstuck. Getting the control of my own life back.
Originally Posted By: Kalni
What is it with this quilting she does all the time?
I'll take some pictures.
Originally Posted By: Kalni
I think I am going to a friends house tomorrow at the beach, just sit there and read...
I wish you were here and we could go together. It's a nice place that has a private beach and very secluded 1 hour away from Athens. My friend writes lyrics and her house is full with books and cds, heaven!!! If I make it there I will be very lucky. (nobody will know where I'll be but you guys) K
Try and stop me! When are we going? You can stop by England on the way, Jeff and we'll hit the Open (although it won't be the same without Tiger; I'm gutted about that).
Hnadcuffs and leg-irons might be a way to get me to do something..... not sure about your W though
Hope the trip goes well. Thank goodness for air conditioning! I'll have a think about the approaching your W plan. My first thought is that if she responds negatively (ie doesn't want to work on it), you don't lose anything. But if she says she does want to work things out, waiting 3 months before another conversation, whilst carrying on with what you're doing might not be the best- if she says yes, she might expect some immediate action of some kind.
I'll keep thinking though- on the one hand it's nice to put myself in your W's shoes. On the other she seems so unhappy it freaks me out to think what must be in her head!
