Try and stop me! When are we going? You can stop by England on the way, Jeff and we'll hit the Open (although it won't be the same without Tiger; I'm gutted about that).

Hnadcuffs and leg-irons might be a way to get me to do something..... not sure about your W though ;\)

Hope the trip goes well. Thank goodness for air conditioning! I'll have a think about the approaching your W plan. My first thought is that if she responds negatively (ie doesn't want to work on it), you don't lose anything. But if she says she does want to work things out, waiting 3 months before another conversation, whilst carrying on with what you're doing might not be the best- if she says yes, she might expect some immediate action of some kind.

I'll keep thinking though- on the one hand it's nice to put myself in your W's shoes. On the other she seems so unhappy it freaks me out to think what must be in her head!

((((((((((((((((Jeff)))))))))))))))))))))