I tend to say to my H you have your truth, I have mine. The reality is that the REAL truth is somewhere in the middle …
One of the things I learnt from the things my MLC W says about the M that were different from the way I remembered them, was that two people can experience the same event and come away with different perspectives. Neither is completely right or wrong ... the truth is somewhere in the middle. This realization has allowed me to be more receptive when she talks.