Anyway, your philosophy "what is there to loose" works but think a bit on the "what am I to gain?"... You BOTH are very negative. And I agree with your C, she sounds confused and depressed much more than you do. What is it with this quilting she does all the time? The best thing I see is that you are AWARE of what is going on. I guess that wins half the battle to happiness (England)...
Sorry I wasn't around today. I feel SOOOOOOO tired. I think I am going to a friends house tomorrow at the beach, just sit there and read...