W b/f called me today mainly cos I've avoided her for a long while, when I used to talk to her I always ended coming away feeling a little bit upset cos she'd offer me tit bits of information but not always the whole deal or not what I wanted to hear. Anyway we just chatted in general terms, talked a bit about how W and I were doing. She says W talks about me in very positive terms, but still holds on to a small negative, which is she still thinks I snoop on her cell phone.
I am a little bit disappointed with that cos I've not touched the phone since Dec 28th (yes I know the exact date). I also know W leaves the phone in temptations way to see if I do snoop, but I just ignore the phone (it no longer calls out to me). Cell phones are a vault of information but if W was up to anything I wouldn't need to look at her phone, my instincts would tell me I've learnt to trust my instincts. Anyway we talked a bit more and we actually talked about how W is still a spoilt brat (sorry spoilt 44 year old woman) used to always getting her own way all the time.
Anyway W and I are doing fine (until her next out burst) our social calendar is full and she talks a lot in terms of us doing family things together.
So things are peaceful for now.
Lan
PS Sandi the Meds have done their job, without them W would be in a very serious state, maybe even not with us.