I'm not home yet. Unfortunately the Ds couldn't live without the net so we brought along the laptop. One more day here Back to reality tomorrow. I'm sure H will give the Ds a big hug and kisses at the airport while I stand there looking like an idiot. That is what happended when we flew out.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
Glad you and the d's had a nice trip. I just told my H that I was thinking about going to the Keys, that a friend was going there this week.... Let me know about the resort if it is one you would recommend!!
Sorry you have to leave paradise but we have missed you!
Hi! We were supposed to get in at 9:30 lastnight. We could not get out of Miami until 6 last night and then we were going to miss our connection. Ended up that we had to fly a different airline and to a different airport as we could not get on any flights to Cleveland. After 8 hours in the Miami airport, going through security twice (getting the extra screening the second time), changing flights a million times, a zillion delays we arrived at another Ohio airport at 1:30 in the morning. We were finally home at 2:30 this morning. I am still waiting for my luggage to show up at my doorstep. At least it has finally been found. (When I checked this afternoon there was no idea where it was.)
H lit up at the airport when he saw the Ds. I didn't even get a handshake. He did stay here lastnight but only because we got in so late. Today he stopped by the house while we were gone and got his stuff. Back to whatever place he rests his head at night.
Today I am kicking myself in the head as I called and texted H way too many times yesterday in my stressfull travels. I would probably still be no where near home now if it weren't for him. It was his idea to fly into a different airport.
SO on the way home from the airport the Ds and I were talking all about our trip. We were very upbeat and he had to realize we had a great time. I told him while we were stuck in Miami that I was making a powerpoint of our pictures to show him. He actually seemed excited about that and said thanks.
Apparently he didn't have an epiphany while I was gone and hasn't realized what an awesome woman he is giving up.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
H called my cell this morning to see if anyone was up. Said he was stopping by to shave. WTF? I am guessing that he is no longer staying at his friend's house and must be back at the office. I hope he doesn't hope to make this a habit. I'm working on rubbing the letters "Welcome" off of my forehead. He has the Ds this evening and his parents are dropping off their dog. I get to watch it while they are out of town. I talked to MIL and she said he could stay at their house while they are gone. I told her I have no idea where he stays and she will have to tell him. GRR! I wish they would tell him what a DAM he is.
Off to make myself happy while H spends time with the Ds.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
Sorry you had an adventure getting back home. I am not sorry you didn't get a handshake. That would have been too stupid for him to do. And I am not sorry he seems to be having trouble getting his life in order. I am out of sympathy for DAMs these days.
At least you and your Ds had a great time. Next year, Greece. Love ya S
Well H stopped by in the afternoon even though it isn't his day. Then he called me about five minutes after he left to ask me if I had thought about a certain car. He still wants me to get a new car...one of those things to ease his guilt I'm sure. Chatted with him longer than I should have. He called later in the afternoon to tell me he had ordered something for the Ds that he was supposed to take care of a month ago. Then he called as we were finishing dinner to tell me what a bad day he was having and he would see us at D's soccer game. H called again while he was on his way to the game and I could tell he was really out of it. Didn't really talk to me at the game and stood behind me. I talked to D's friends' moms. It is funny, D is going into 10th grade and has been friends with these girls since K. Their moms have no idea and I'm sure will be shocked. H called shortly after he left the game to see if we had gotten to the car yet.
I completely understand the confusing messages you talk about BBJ. I don't get why all the sudden H wants to chit chat all the time. Maybe his EA's have become mutes.
To top things off, H's dog (shepard mix) got shunked for the second time this week tonight. I am so freaking tired of bathing the DAM's DAdog. Why the h... would you bark at something that sprayed you two nights ago!?!?!?! UGH
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
Back to reality tomorrow. I'm sure H will give the Ds a big hug and kisses at the airport while I stand there looking like an idiot. That is what happended when we flew out.