It really doesn't matter who the fall back plan is. What matters to me is that H has continued to contact OW. It is him initiating contact and wanting a R with her. The one thing I need the most in a R is honesty which eventually leads to trust and I don't have that. That is one thing I'm not willing to settle on. I won't confront H but if he continues contact with OW I am prepared to let go and move on. I KNOW that once S and I are gone, H will miss us tremendously and may even start to make plans to move. Yesterday I saw a job posting that he printed off for a position near our hometown. The negative - it is similar to what he was doing before with which he was unhappy.
Eagle - thanks for the offer of a nice dinner. Sounds great, even if we are thousands of miles away.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
