I'm glad it helps. I'll try to look in on your thread off and on from now on.
Nothing much new here.....Picked up an empty, pretty journal to start writing things I'm grateful for each day, and to work on forgiveness. Focusing on H and positives! I cleaned my bedroom today, was getting to be a huge mess....always does when I'm a huge mess. Trying for a new mindset. Thoughts of OM still there, but not as strong sadness...I even felt a little anger at him at one point today. No contact.
For the weekend I am going to go visit my friend's volleyball game for just a bit, then come home and hang with H and S. Tomorrow we will go to a really cool zoo about an hour away and spend all day there. SUnday and MOnday no set plans, but my goal is to organize house so I can organize my life. For me, this goes hand in hand. I'm thinking of painting a room or two pretty soon. We need a change.