Hi Yoyo!!!

Yes, the BIL is my H's brother. They are alike in A LOT of ways....selfish, bad tempers, alcoholics, low self esteem & confidence, arrogant....etc. But they have differences too. My BIL HATES cheaters. My H is a cheater! BIL has let his temper turn physical. Although he uses his size to intimidate, my H has never, ever lifted a finger toward me. I guess he did keep one promise to me, that he would never hit me. Although my H let his commitment to D4 slide a little, he spends a lot more time with her than BIL spends with his D7. There are others, but those are the major ones.

I've been wanting to email you but my email hasn't been working here at work and it's been tough having time to get on at home. I hope you're doing well!!

Thanks for the hugs.

SueS

Last edited by SueS; 06/20/08 08:27 PM.

ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day