I think there are two reasonable possibilities: 1. She says no. Which isn't a total disaster. Realistically, it doesn't change anything, unless I decide to change it. Like for instance, jumping on a plane to England! I can then choose when or how I want to act.
2. She says yes, but doesn't know when or what. (And probably no real intention of doing anything.) Again, it isn't a disaster, I can say we'll talk again in three months, and keep doing what I am doing. No hard deadline, but also the realization that what is going on can't continue forever.
She's been working since September. So, in one sense it is a long time, in another, not so much. I agree, wanting to be independent does not explain everything. It's just part of the puzzle. And I'm not really trying to solve that puzzle anymore, it isn't mine to solve.
Originally Posted By: One Day
and I agree that she needs to see a C, although I'll be darned if I can think of a way to get her to do it!!
