I like the idea of asking W if she wants to work on things, as long as you can do it with no expectations and are prepared for her answer (at this stage I'm assuming she will be negative as I can't really see her being positive about anything).
She's been working for quite a long time now, hasn't she. And I don't think that wanting to be independent explains all of her behaviour- it seems to me that there's more going on than just that, and I agree that she needs to see a C, although I'll be darned if I can think of a way to get her to do it!!
