Sounds like a great plan. It will give you time to work on you and to be you and S as a family. I really believe that this is all about letting go. I feel so much better since I dropped the rope and let go. I still don't want the D and am DBing but am focused on my new family of 3 w/o WAS. You now have the time and distance to grow and be strong w/o your H. Whatever happens it will be better than what you have now.
Too bad you are not moving here. I would buy you and S a nice dinner.
