Wife Filed And I Need Help With Busting ASAP

[Scott123]

Yeah, that is what I'm going to do. I'll just start on the room and when she says anything I'll explain what I'm doing.

I do have one other question.

I have had a letter typed up for a few days. it is really long
and goes into a lot of stuff I was dealing with emotionally
with the kids, the illness I was dealing with and all of the
neglect towards here. It is not a begging, pleading letter or
anything like that. It is basically and apology and a letter
to validate pretty much everything she has told me. I wrote
the letter so that I'd first - remember everything I wanted
to say and 2nd so that she could read it in her own time and
it would not be argumentative.

It's not an open ended letter either... there would be no
need for her to respond to it. It's just a talk from me.

Should I give this to her, or leave it for her? In my eyes it
will help get across that I am accepting the blame, validating
her emotions and stating that I'm working on overcoming my
problems for ME. No anger, hostility or anything like
that is in it and that way it does not lead to any relationship
talk, but I still get to at least validate and let some of
my thoughts out to her.

I know she is going out tonight and I was thinking to leave it
for her when she gets home?

- Scott