Wow Shiny! Thats' cool. I don't have many dreams but I did have a few when H was gone. Some involved ex-partner - weird and some involved wandering around a big house and realising that I was alone when I had come there with H and kids for a party. I just kind of lost them somewhere. The house was that of my midwife friend who birthed both our kids. So I guess I was connecting the fact that our marriage really started to hit the rocks when S was born.
Thinking about the part about your mum's house and where I was dreaming of ex-partner, maybe it's something about unfinished business. Maybe you wanted to go to your mum's house because you have unfinished business there before you can come home. Just my 2 cents.
take care
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong