Bring on the Rain - Part 3

[Rob1231]

This angers me a bit. For most of the past 6 years, we have struggled with money. Things were going better financially last year just before I found out about the A. H FINALLY is doing well with his work and within just a few short months has been able to accumulate over $5200. And do I see any benefit from it? NO!! I have worked my A$$ off, staying the stable one, putting in OT, watching H jump from job to job. I get NOTHING.

Sue, hon, take the long view on this one. (Note, I'm making some assumptions here and don't really know beans about this....) When the D comes around, would you rather have H's child support payment calculated based upon the money he was making previously, or on the money he is currently making?

I set up an appointment for tomorrow for a massage! I'm so excited. It's been years since I've had one. That's something that could become an addiction for me!! I also treated myself to a couple of new shirts and pairs of pants.

Now THIS is wonderful! I'm so happy to see you treating yourself - you deserve it, and this shows a nice positive direction in your attitude. Good for you!

I believe I mentioned that she and my BIL are going through a D. ... My SIL is VERY strong but could still use a lot of prayers.

Wow, your BIL sure sounds like a "piece of work" to me! I am really glad that the two of you have each other in your corners. Hang in there, both of you!