What up, g? (This is to be read in "street" talk - got it?)

I liked your post about detachment. I feel I've done a good job of detaching for the most part. For me it became a necessity, since all 3 of us work together. My husband and the EA OW interact daily; I hear him joking with her and she responds with giddy laughter. I wouldn't be able to survive in this atmosphere if I constantly dwelled on what I see and hear. I'm in survival mode. But I still crumble from time to time.

It would be so awesome if you could make yourself vomit on demand.

xo,


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence